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Norm's avatar

Hindsight is 20/20

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Flash J bang's avatar

Welcome Back Kate

🫶 Never Surrender

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Grow_Wizzard's avatar

Great post Kate, Good to see you back putting out content for us to consume. Your unique perspective is like a breath of fresh air to many who follow you. Great post about the deceivers among us. Keep doing what you do.... Peace...

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Michael Reid's avatar

Nailed it 🫡

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Kathleen McMurray's avatar

Can we say Jon Herold?

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MarmyB's avatar

Your opening sentence contains “steer clear”. It’s been my experience that this is the only safe path with a narc. There is no changing or fixing them. You will always be their prey if you allow access. It’s really hard to cut ties when the narc is a member of your family, but completely necessary for personal sanity and peace. The challenge for normal people is that you can’t fathom a person capable of such heartless deception and cruelty. Especially if it’s someone you’ve known your whole life. Protect yourself.

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Audrey Hester's avatar

Now “expand your thinking” … something Q told us 52 times… to seek understanding of what makes narcs be the way they are. You’ll generally find they are deeply wounded, and have never healed properly so the hurt comes out in ways you describe. Hurt people, hurt people… but healed people heal people! You my beautiful Light have been gifted a spirit of healing… and I’m so excited to see you become truly activated to help guide wounded people to a path of healing. 💚🐸💚

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Mark's avatar

That was really well written. I am at the point where I try not to engage with these "narcs", just walk away and spend precious time on worthwhile people and things.

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JLyn's avatar

Covert Narcs are harmful as well. They will slander others to make themselves look good and then play the victim.

The best thing I've found that helps me in dealing with the Narc in my life is to not engage with them. It bugs them most when you walk away from their drama and step off their hampster wheel.

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Rebel Chick's avatar

I agree with this post as I'm currently dealing with one. Empaths are their favorite food as they will devour them and move on feeding an unsatisfied hunger in their soul.

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Dolores's avatar

Lived 20 years with one and another 10yrs with a family friend ooh lucky(after 1 yr of working on myself) God Bless me!!! with the unthinkable of betrayal of a husband and 'friend' which resulted in a baby...but I was so blinded before God had to "open my eyes " with a so called bomb. Best gift ever , am stronger, not timid, vocal with no shame!! :) never let your guard down EVER!!!!

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Johnny H is PoweredBySpirit's avatar

Yay, Kate, another amazing and extremely poignant topic that is overwhelmingly and currently relevant in my own personal life. Hope you’re doing well, we’ve all been going through a challenging season, but I always love seeing you pop up. Whether it’s with an article, or a Kate Awakening show, or Book club, or something. I try to join when I can.

I guess I have a book I could suggest for the show and, although it’s extremely relevant for my life (and it sounds like probably yours or you wouldn’t have picked this subject), the guy is not all that awesome in live human form. He wrote an amazing book about a really important topic called “protect protecting ourselves from emotional predators“, particularly in the field of parental alienation. This is how I came across him, and I was really close to picking him as my family Therapist, but some major red flags popped up and I’m glad his price tag was so outrageous that it caused me to pause before I jumped in with him.

Picking a family therapist in a terribly damaging family court case is a critical choice and I almost made another bad one. Anyway, the book is great, and there’s lots to learn from it. I could send a link. Let me know, or I know that you already know how to do tons of research and if you’re interested, you’ll probably just grab it long before I respond.

Take care, sister, hope I get to be there up close and personal for a future video cry session because those are so healing and beautiful right now.

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Gina Funke's avatar

The one’s that run religious institutions are the worst of the worst, because they abuse and mislead their flock. Knowledge of God without fear of Him is folly. The church is in big trouble IMO.

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Richard Henry Lee's avatar

I like your take. I have noticed that "influencers" tend to assume, or at least say they assume, that, if the behavior of a person, country, or secret organization can be explained by the profit motive, that's not evil, not narcissism or sociopathy. This is either a blind spot among influencers or a talking point to help hide the network of sociopaths that undermine the quality of our lives. In Power vs Force, Dr Hawkins presents that people with a level of consciousness under 200 are self-motivated and aren't even aware of the needs of others. Another book of his "Transcending the levels of consciousness" is probably constructive in helping to understand sociopathy. I have one more observation. Betrayal and abandonment including childhood abuse traumatize the heart, causing people to function from the logic centers of the brain. This often creates sociopaths because logic is, by nature, indifferent, sociopathic. The whole color revolution program is all about creating betrayal, abandonment, and abuse, and blaming it on the country to be overthrown. This can create an Antifa army, brown shirts, ready to act as a sociopathic mob. I have found that San Pedro cactus powder (not illegal) in small amounts (1/8 tsp per week) is effective at dissolving the trauma in motor nerves particularly the vagus nerve connecting heart to brain, and unwinding the trauma stored in the heart. It takes time, but is helpful. As the heart awakens, we become more able to discern when a person is a heartless (traumatized) narcissist or sociopath. This is why psychedelics like mushrooms, Ayahuasca, and ibogaine are outlawed in sociopath-controlled countries.

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MindyOrk's avatar

They are NOT human, but a predator species pretending to be human. Our ORIGINAL DNA,OUR GOD GIVEN BLUEPRINT Is FEARED,ENVIED AND HATED. By anyone of them that have turn to the dark side- by Gods LAW, becoming vampires, parasite neanderthal- like beast... de evolved into predators. This why they ALL act the same. They are literally cyborg psychopath predators FEEDING ON TRAUMA AND DRAMA.

A de evolved species pretending to be human. Our Light shines on their mask and lies. Like a mirror 🪞 🫵

🫶✊💪👑🙂‍↕️✨

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